It All Starts With Your Thoughts!!!

 

KayK’s Corner… Your Inspirational Corner!

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Have you ever heard it said that we are what we think? There are several books, self help videos and personal growth gurus that have told us for years that everything said or done first started with a thought! I’m sure there are those that would negate this line of thinking by saying “I’ve thought about being rich all my life, and I’m still broke!” But, I would challenge that person to look deeper at exactly WHAT they are thinking.

We have all wanted to lose weight, make more money or accomplish our big dream, so what is it that gets in our way? It’s your thoughts!!! It is the whole conversation that is happening in your head. It is not just the thoughts of our dreams and desires… but it is the thoughts that talk us out of said dream or desire. It’s the thought that neutralizes the action necessary to get the dream. It is the conversation between the conscious and subconscious that may be blocking your realized dreams.

It looks like this:

fear-of-failureConscious: I want to buy a house and finally stop renting!

Unconscious: but I don’t have any money, and I’m not a good saver

Conscious: look at these beautiful model homes!! This is how I should be living!!!

Unconscious: I can’t afford this house by myself… why do I have to be single… I will never get my own house. I need to buy this dress to make me feel better!!!

And just like that… You have become your thoughts… “I will never get my own house”, defeated by your own internal conversation!

But… how different could life be if we began to ARREST the negative words that are not agreeing with what we really want? What if every time we began to self-doubt or talk negatively about our dream we STOPPED and refused to give our dreams away… what if we changed the same conversation to look like this:

Conscious: I want to buy a house and finally stop renting!

Unconscious: but I don’t have any money, and I’m not a good saver

Conscious: They have programs for first time buyers… look at these beautiful model homes!! This is how I should be living!!!

Unconscious: I can’t afford this house by myself… but one day I will! Let me look at something that is great to start out in while I’m single! It can become rental property later!!!

What is the voice in your head saying? The thoughts you have become words you speak!!! The words you speak will guide your actions. What you really believe… is what will happen for you, because your thoughts will challenge you to move and begin working on the dream. If it is loosing weight, your true belief that it can happen for you will inspire you to go to the gym. If you want to own a home, the thought that ownership is possible will help you put real action to it and begin moving toward saving for a house instead of buying another dress.

image39What are you thinking? What is the conversation in your head? Are you paralyzed by self-doubt, allowing that negative voice to stop you from your dreams? Arrest your negative thoughts! When your fear is louder than your dreams in your head, reverse the process by literally saying something positive out loud! Let your mind hear you cancelling the negative thoughts!!!

Conscious: I want to buy a house and finally stop renting!

Unconscious: but I don’t have any money, and I’m not a good saver

Say OUT LOUD: I want a house so I will change my habits and begin saving!

When you cancel the negative thoughts by saying a positive statement, you are on your way to attracting your dreams. The more you declare or say out loud the positive statements the more the negative thoughts will disappear quietly and you will believe in your dream.

So… what are you thinking?

 

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